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July 21, 2006
Small, Small World...
So the other day, a friend of mine was going on and on about the new man in her life. The more I asked about him, the more he sounded like a guy I know. As fate would have it, it was. Little does she know that the man she's smitten with is a drag queen, who by the way used o hit on me regularly. I've already decided to not say anything to her because, 1. It's none of my business and 2. She's really happy. If it boils down to it, and the secret gets "outed", then they can decide if what the have is worth fighting for.
Now the half of this post is the sad reality that Sacramento, CA is a small, small, small town. I can't go into a bar without seeing 2 or 3 ex's and a half-a-dozen tricks. AND! If I slept with someone, the odds are, they also slept someone I know. It's like "Six Degrees of Sex". I can only hope that if my name is mentioned amongst them, that I get rave revues, because, I've been told I'm good in bed... and anywhere else sex can be had for that matter. =0)
Posted by Roque at July 21, 2006 06:29 AM
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From the looks of you, I bet you are... and even BETTER in other places!
Posted by: Spider at July 26, 2006 09:02 AM
Hey R...
I think I might have a guilty conscience myself know ing that this friend or semi-friend was in for a fall down the line. I'd rather spare the person the longterm heartbreak than worry about how this other guy might react to the circumstances. If you know the guy, you might want to approach him and ask what's going on? There could be something your not aware of. Inn any event, your predicament is not an easy one.
Posted by: Tony at July 26, 2006 01:37 AM
I respect where your comming from on not telling her about him. While she may get angry at you for not telling her what you know if she gets hurt I would just prepare yourself for it.
Perhaps you could talk to him and tell him to be very honest and upfront with her so she doesn't get hurt. I doubt very much he told her and she is cool with but then again stranger things have happened.
Posted by: Pete at July 24, 2006 08:44 PM
I wish I could express the amount of torment I put myself through about this. I talked to a few people about the "to tell or not to tell" issue and they all agreed with me. While this unsuspecting friend and I are not REALLY close like that, is it really my place to talk about someones life behind their back? And! Who's to say she's doesn't already know? Her man isn't the most masculine guy... I'm just say'in... =0)~
Posted by: roque at July 22, 2006 08:04 PM
Hey! I just played bball with a Sacramento team at the Gay Games.
And about your friend, if she's really your friend, you should definantly tell her your history with her guy. You're no longer seeing or friends with the guy, right? As a true friend, it's your responsibility to look out for her and warn her of any possible danger or heartache. That is, if you guys have that kind of relationship anyway. I know I'd want to know.
Posted by: Thundercizzle at July 22, 2006 05:48 PM